Alrighty, folks.
I've left you hanging for a week now.
Here's the situation:
"Tom" and I hung out last Wednesday evening and things went alright. So I thought, at least.
Before he had left, we chatted briefly about when we were going to hang out again next.
It went like this:
"Tom": "What works for you this weekend?"
Me: "Saturday is good."
"Tom": "Ok, Saturday it is."
Well, then Thursday passed by, no word from him. That's ok.
Friday passed by, no word from him. Eh, ok.
Friday night, after a few drinks with friends and hanging out at a local bar, I sent him a text since I was thinking about him: "Hey What are you up to?" No response.
Saturday: nothing all day.
Finally, I bit the bullet and sent him a text:
Me: "Hey did you still want to do something tonight?"
"Tom": "Hey I'm in Pennsylvania tonight."
Me: "Oh ok have fun"
I have not heard from him since.
Not quite sure what happened.
We've seen each other once a week now for the past 4 weeks.
Been in communication.
Up until now.
I was quite startled that he was out of town.
He didn't mention anything about going out of town anytime soon.
He had been out of town the weekend before.
I was surprised, and still am.
It's been about 5 days now since I have heard from him.
I don't think I'll hear anything else from him unless I say something first.
I'm disappointed, mostly because, I thought things were alright and we were on the same page.
Apparently not.
I'm not quite sure what I'm going to do now.
I've gone back and forth as to whether I might shoot a text his way to see if he still exists.
However, nothing has been done nor said yet.
Maybe that's for the best?
Not really all that much of a happy camper.
Nah, dont do it. Don't forget: If a guy wants you, he'll work for it. I dont know what his deal is now, esp after you guys have been hanging out, but let it go a while and see if he has the balls to contact you. ;-)
ReplyDeleteI'm rooting for you guys, so I hope "Tom" wises up and calls you soon. And it should be him that calls you since you have done more than enough to stay in contact with him.
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