I know, it's been a while.
I don't have much to report.
To sum up ladies' night: it was alright. I learned I don't have the game I once used to have. But, I think this is because I am not in a place right now where I want to meet anyone new. Since I'm not interested in meeting new guys, it shows when I "attempt" to talk to them.
"Tom" has sporadically been in touch. It is really not much of anything to post about other than he reaches out to me once in a while. Since he's been slammed with work, we haven't hung out and that's alright with me. Why? Because I'm glad that nothing went any further since he's been so swamped with work. I was in a relationship in which the ex-boyfriend had 4-6 week periods of non-stop work and I was unable to see him (I know that sounds a little sketchy, but trust me, it is not, I just don't feel like explaining the nature of it). "Tom" is currently too busy to devote any type of effort towards seeing someone (or effort towards me) and I don't want to be a last priority; no one should be a last priority. Like I've said before, timing is everything.
If anything arises, I'll keep you posted!
